In no particular order whatsoever,

I have listed down attributes of th type of guys

I would avoid dating and bringing home to my big momma

(no pun intended mummy dear)

Ths kind of attributes are like a huge NO-NO and I would avoid them like the plague!

Honest.

But some people would call it discriminating but oh well,

whatever rocks ones boat!

you know you're in deep shit when he pays attention to how he looks rather than you.

Dates with him are usually centered on his

reflection on each and every reflective surfaces

(be it mirrors or pillars or glass displays)

It brings to mind self-centeredness, to me.

No i do not insist on my dates being from those throwback cavemen era

where they go around beating their chest and roaring

or something equally disgusting like

What I meant by weak is,

a guy who is easily controlled by friends or people around him.

Yes, including yourself.

Heads up,

I've been in a relationship with one who is so...(lets put it nicely)...inclined to his friends' wishes that he put me aside.

I'm ok with several things

but not

being dumped flat on my butt for someone who is not even there in front of me!

I gave up fighting.

I only fight for something I know I can win,

not something that I know I won't win no matter how much I do.

Another type would be one who struts around

and picks fights.

Acting all macho and all but when ACTUALLY confronted,

he pees in his pants.

Hell, find a more ingenious way to impress your date will you?!

For some, you won't know till you marry the jerk.

But there are some telling signs.

for instance, he doesn't need to lose his temper for him to hurt you.

He could just twist your arm because he thinks you lied.

He could easily grip your hand so tightly it'd bruise.

He could just shove you to one side when he gets upset.

But when he DOES lose his temper,

all hell will break lose.

Not content with tongue lashing and minor painful intimidation,

he goes all out and punches and slaps you,

oblivious to the watching crowd

(who more often than not just watch and gasp without helping -_-)

Do take note though, some guys are more cunning and would do it only when there's noone around!

Drunkard.


First few months he'd be dancing attendance to your every whim and fancy.
Suddenly, he'd start disappearing.
Not answering calls or texts at night.
Meeting you the next day all disheveled with bloodshot eyes.
Smelling faintly of alcohol.
Speech slurred and unsteady gait.
After a few hours, hands shaking and breaking out in sweat.


Run woman Run!
Run like the devil's hounding you!


Gambler


Forever broke.
Always asking for money.
(Guys who I know,
they would never ask a girl for money.
Something to do with ego. and maybe masochist.
But they'd get pissed if the girl is dead broke and doesn't ask for help!)


Promises to change,
after more than enough chances,
please do yourself and your future off-springs a favour by leaving.
Unless he can prove that he really has changed!


Put the guy on probation yo!


(Think : Yellow Ribbon Project!)
Gluttony.


I don't know about you but I like a guy with a nice body.


No i do not mean a muscular body like if you accidentally hit him,
you run the risk of falling flat on your bum, winded.


But I do mean a guy with a nice physique.
Strong but not overbearing.
Nicely sculpted muscles.
And yes he has to be clean and smelling nice!


NOT stinking of sweat every single day!




Can you imagine,
hugging a guy but not being able to reach all around due to his gut hanging over his belt?!
Or people making fun of the two of you when you're pregnant by asking
'Hey who's the pregnant one, wife or husband?'


So guys, PLEASE.
Keep fit and stay fit!
Besides looking good,
you'd be a few years further from a heart attack and liver failure or something!




Mama's Boy

No offence,

but I like a guy who is responsible.

Close to his family.

Close but not CONTROLLED.

Guys my age

(hey i'm only 19, not going to turn extinct anytime soon if i have any say!)

don't let their mothers shop for them anymore.

unless necessary,

like if they run behind of schedule and their mum lovingly pick out clothes for them once in a while,

that,

I don't mind.
Frankly, I find it endearing.

But if from top to bottom, his mother has to dictate to him what he has to wear and everything,

I'm sorry but I lose respect for him.

I respect him for totally listening to his mother but at the same time,

I don't because he doesn't seem able to exert his own mind and opinions,

cowering before his mother's rule.

Imagine getting married to him?!

His mother would probably tell you

which side of the bed to sleep on and

what time to fall asleep every single day and

what time to reach home.

I shudder at that.

I like my freedom a tad too much to be able to take controlling orders lying down!